Judgment is stupid because it never solves anything. Some people are quick to judge others based on appearance first, and character second. Others choose character over appearance. But either way, you can learn a lot about a person based on how they act, the words they speak, and the way they look.
Some people do not take good care of themselves, and instead of looking inwards and reflecting on their actions, they take the blame and misplace it on someone else. You have to learn how to take a real good look at yourself to figure out what is wrong. In my opinion, judgment gets in the way of true love and true connection.
That being said, judgment is normal. It is what people naturally do with the power of their mind. And rather than judging people, it is better to learn how to get along and work with one another.
People can sometimes be quick to judge, and you can learn how to approach these people in a friendly matter. Or, you can choose not to associate with those kinds of people. Either way works. But, you have to be smart about it. You have to figure out who to trust. And sometimes, trusting can be difficult. But, it is possible to learn how to get along with each other.